I hear what you are saying, Lisa, but my husband was not bad until the last two years of our marriage when he started drinking. It became unbearable after 29 years of years of marriage. I had a hard time dating because no man compared to him. At least not when he was at his best. And I was still very in love with him. We talked about remarriage, then, after six years divorced. But just recently, he got another OVI, and this time it's a felony, and I'm glad I didn't remarry him. I know several people who did go back with their spouse after trying to find another mate. It all depends. I was suggesting she really think about it, that's all. I regretted it for a while there, but I don't now. Its great you are having fun. I did, too, for a bit then I got so lonely.