I hear you loud and clear, Linda. Too much of what we write about our personal life is critiqued to the max. Points are overlooked and intentions are misconstrued. I write what I know. I am not an expert in the law or real estate. Nitpicking at a writer is unnecessary. Anyway, I have been criticized enough and I don't care. If a reader wants to skip me, by all means, they are free to do so. I enjoy your writing. Both of you :)
I think I understand the way you described your husband and it is not unusual. Mine did not support some of the things I enjoyed but we weren't going to get divorced over it.