I know, Ken and I don't want to sound mean, but I have met plenty of men in pretty good health, and that one guy I wrote about had serious CHRONIC health issues. A guy who needs a knee replacement? No problem. I need one, too. I have a bit of money, although I don't tell guys that, but often it's obvious from where I live, and I am a nurse. So, the nurse and a purse joke scares me off!!