I listen to many motivational talks on YouTube to get over this past year's mess in my life. Looking back is one of our worst moves. I try it all the time and always suffer for it. The rebound period after hurt and heartache seems to be taking way too long and a lot of it is my own fault. I am the one that controls what I think about and I need to stop looking back and let it go. How can God help me move on if I keep looking back with sorrow, regret, and imagining what might have been when there is no guarantee it would ever have happened like I think? Wasted time.