I made this mistake, too, and cannot change a thing. I married my second husband when my daughters were 12, 6, and 3. I was in love for the first time and paid much attention to my husband and our relationship. It's partially my fault they all chose the wrong men to be with and have children with. I can't change it. I've told them this, and they say I am wrong, but why did they make such poor choices? Do we blame ourselves too much, Chrissie?