I met a guy online that told me this very thing! Then he held a cocktail party for all these women a few weeks later to thank them. He asked me out after his wife had only died in April, and this was October. Too bad I had a bad knee and couldn't go out much because he was desperate to go on dates and talk every day, which was annoying to me. Sure enough, by the spring, he had a redhead driving his shiny new red convertible and ready to get married. It could have been me, but I had zero attraction to him except for his money.