I needed to fall out of love with him. I held him high for the man he was when we married. I let the 4 DUIs and continuous drinking out of my thoughts. But, when he got a girlfriend and a twit at that, I was done. He had sworn adoration for me from when we married in 1987 to the past six years after we divorced. I divorced him to stop drinking and shock him into sobriety, but it did not work. We planned to remarry, but I was very hesitant, understandably. Thank God!!