I pray for me ex to quit. He is very judgmental of others who don't lead as healthy a lifestyle as him. He eats healthy and exercises. He seems to forget he's a smoker.

He does, and always has, hid it from me as best he can. But, I have a keen sense of smell. However, there are worse things in life and I established a good marriage with him. Smoking wasn't going to break us up.

I just figured if I had the choice from the get go to say I would only date non smokers that was wise considering my dislike of smoke smell.

I know you'll make it. You wrote about it and that gives you extra motivation!