I read about your husband, Robin. I am so sorry.
And you stayed.
I made a friend in SA when I was there. She found my wallet on a tram we took on a winery tour. She sent it by air with a friend who had someone drive it up to Entabeni for me. She and I finally met 2 summers ago when she flew here just to meet me. Her husband has planes. She met him right after doing the good deed for me. I say that was her reward because he is rich and she was a single mom living with her parents. Anyway, They have a place in Cape Town as well as Johannesburg. They are always vacationing in Seychelles. I think he owns a resort there. I didn't really have much money in my wallet and I told her to keep that although she hesitated. My wedding ring was in my wallet with a personal inscription on it. I love her dearly.