I see both of those reasons. I feel it's unfair to him because he wants to be married. That's the last thing I will jump into with him at this point. I wish it were not so. I had such high hopes for this relationship. I only wrote about it once we were together for a few months. I know I am not perfect, but there are some things that I cannot stand. I know way more about him than he knows about me, and that hurts me. Plus, what man continuously exposes his butt crack in public? Even after I mentioned it several times. This was not in his home with the 2 of us. I can put up with that. In public and in front of my friends?