Yeah, I never thought of the weight. That is pretty crappy. You see these things later but at the time it’s sweet and cute🤮 I see these signs of depression in one of my daughters but no matter what I say she denies it. I know inside she's torn apart. But there's nothing I can do to help her but give her all the attention I can. However, she cuts herself off from me and I don't hear from her for days. I don't go to her house because her husband is an ass and I dislike him so much I'm not sure what I would do if I saw him. Clawing his eyes out comes to mind. I have not been able to read more of your story. I'm getting there!