I think your mom needs to be told how you feel. She doesn't want to hurt you, but that's kind of mean if you ask me. You are way more than your weight. When we take pride in those compliments about our skinny bodies, we are saying that thin is BETTER than fat to the world. I know because I did it for years and loved to be told I was skinny. As if that made me more desirable when I was trying to attract a good man, not a roll in the hay! This weight thing for women is brutal. All my daughters face it because they took after their dad, who was close to 400# when he died. I'm glad you are out of giving a f__k 😂