I totally agree. My 3 girls all have low self-esteem and problems with men. I was treated great by my ex and I would never let any man mistreat me. They are weak. I get all the blame but I had custody of them and dad rarely saw them. I think their problems are daddy issues. He abandoned them. I will always get the blame from my own family. Traitors. They liked him more than me. He died so I can't get him to do anything in their lives now.

It's just wrong to blame a mom for everything.