I totally agree, Marilyn. She can't sleep with him either. That is going to be a problem. She has always been in love with her ex. She dreams about him almost every night! I never dream about mine! So she will have to find a way to break it off eventually. Taking trips with him will be detrimental, IMO. (BTW, her ex is a creep. He moved in with a girl he met on match when they were both still married, and had a baby with her before he and my friend were even divorced)