I believe I was not mature in understanding love until about a year ago. I was divorced when I was 28 and remarried when I was 31. The first time I was pregnant and my parents made me get married. The second time was for love. When my ex started to drink, and after two years and a lot of counseling, and he was on his 3rd DUI, I left him. I think had I not found it relatively easy to divorce the first time I would have hung in longer the 2nd time. 2 psychologists told me I would need more help than they could give me if I did not get out of my situation. That was seven years ago, and I still love that man even though he just got his 4th DUI. He just got out of jail and lives with his girlfriend, and I still cry about him. Now I see love would have stuck it out.