I was talking about my first ex, the father of my three daughters. We divorced in 1985. He and I stayed friends, and I ended up being the one they called when he died in 2016. He listed me as his emergency contact. I remarried in 1987 and divorced again in 2016. That guy is messed up and is who I write about here. But a story about my first ex could be a good one. Funny, I lost them both in 2016.