I was the one in my family who had to “pee” all the time. I held it and held it rather than face the grumpiness of the whole family because we had to stop again for Klara to pee.
They made fun of me mercilessly and if I went anywhere with another family my mom would always tell them about my “problem”. So embarrassing.
What’s funny is I don’t have that anymore. But both my sisters can’t cough or sneeze without wetting themselves! Karmas a bitch. I hope you can overcome this, Iva. You deserve a perfect “the past is in the past” record!
But, also, my dad didn’t get that mad and he didn’t hit me. That’s trauma in a big way and I’ve never experienced that. I hope you can let that hurt little girl go soon. No pun intended.