I will never consider myself a good mom with how my 3 daughters behave. I think it mostly has to do with their dad, but since he's gone, he can't make up for his neglect, and I get all the grief. I know these are her choices but they affect me and her siblings and her children. She is very selfish and does not take that into considertion now. But, she did at first. Its changing in the real world and she has to adjust.