I wish I had just known how to have an affair partner! It would have saved so much in my life. I had a good one but thought I should divorce my husband and marry him. Unrealistic! He led me on to believe that would happen and I threw my life away. I couldn't imagine just having an affair and keeping my marriage intact. It was a sin, a crime, a horrible thing. Now, I see it all in a different light. Too late. This is a great primer for a "good affair". One that doesn't ruin your life as long as you both agree. It's possible.