I'll tell you, Marilyn, I do not get dates, and the ex that dumped me looks like he's 90. He's 5'7" and 140# and is so aged over the last two years. I do not know what I am doing wrong. I ignored my ex a lot because I was scared of his drinking again, and he did. He just got out of jail yesterday after being there since December. His new girlfriend, who is mousy as hell, can care for him with no license for five years after DUI #4.

I like #1, but he and that dog are pretty far away, and that dog...yikes! I want a relationship, and it's so hard.