I'm in the same boat. My ex has no desire to sort through pictures. That's the past to him. I decided not to do it either. I started with a box for each of my four kids and cried way too much. Each box is only 1/8 filled and sitting in the closet with tubs and tubs of family pictures that will probably go in a dumpster when I die. That's the most depressing of all. No one else in this family cares. From the time I first met you, you are now so different. I can see how you've accepted the unacceptable and allowed it to become a reality. I, for one, am still shocked and sick over how you've been treated. And your daughter is a mother. She must know how it hurts you. I think about you a lot. I'm glad you're back.