I'm milking it a little here because he has a big date planned for my birthday on Friday. Then his play starts, his birthday comes, and his son and family are driving here from 3 hours away to go to the play and dinner I arranged. I have several tickets to his play with five different people, so I need to be cool until that's over, and right after that, I take him to the airport to go on a cruise with his son's family. Then it's December. While he is gone, I will make my final decision.