I'm not on any dating sites now, but I changed my profile for when and if I join another one. It's brief. I read some, and they have just one word or phrase, and I am turned off. I figure men read mine that way, too. You don't have to tell all because your "all" may change or just not look good in writing. After my vacation, I may try again, but it takes a lot of effort. If I were younger, it would be different.