I'm not sure. I've only had sex with three men in my life, and I married 2 of them. But if you go by books and magazines, a woman better be a gymnast, stick thin but with large breasts, and dying to give oral sex. I was sort of like that when I met my husband, but that was 40 years ago. He wouldn't expect that now. I think now, if he could get it at all, he'd be thrilled. I'm pretty sure I was his last partner. It's too bad he has to be such a fool.