I'm not sure I can go? I know the judge personally. I've known him for years since he was a friend of my first husband. I held him in my arms in ER when his dad was dying a few years ago. My ex has been in front of him before with his other OVI charges. I'm hoping he sees the danger and holds the bail high. BUT, I have not talked to him for a long time and he may think it's a favor to me to go lightly on my ex. I can't very well try to influence him since I think that's against the law. I'm not sure how much $$ the fiancé can come up with, but she will try to bail him out. Knowing the judge, he may let him out on his own recognizance. Too bad he screwed me over because my daughter has the money and was going to bail him out at $300,000. When she heard about the secret engagement and his continued communications with me, she said screw him (Thank God)