I'm sorry to hear this because I know it's a nightmare. I have not given up but I rarely speak to her. I heard she just lost her job so now she will have to depend on whatever "boyfriend" she has at the time. Believe me she is looking so haggard the quality of men is as low as you can go. I had dreams and hopes for her because she was a bright, clever, and beautiful child. I hate this whole mess. Now even my granddaughter, almost 20, says he doesn't care about her mom at all anymore. She knows its a disease but she can't take the lies, deceit, and manipulation her mom pulls on her. The whole family suffers but especially the mom. I will have to see if I can find a NarAnon near me.