Is that why my ex-husband got rid of all of us after his 4th DUI? Me, the kids, and even the grandkids. All cut out of his life while he went to live with a woman no one knows but me (She was at our wedding and after him all our 29 years of our marriage). I guess she got what she wanted, and she can have him. If she only knew the things, he said about her! I'm glad you took alcohol on and beat it. I hope he does someday, too. It stole our marriage.