It seems ridiculous we were called prudes and tight ass when I was younger and would not easily have sex with any guy. The guys have no idea what it's like to worry about an unwanted pregnancy. I had that fear, it became a reality, and I paid a big price for it. I lectured my 3 daughters and my granddaughter. I told them it is a lifelong gig to have a child and you will put your dreams aside, often forever, to care for that little one. I believe I gave them the impression I regretted having them but that was not what I was trying to get across. Of course, as they became older, abortions were easy to get. None of them had unplanned pregnancies (that i am aware of) but they are all messed up anyway and none of them followed the dreams they had as young girls. Go figure.