It suck’s to be the one “blamed”. My ex got all kinds of pity because mean old Klara divorced Him. That’s all they thought of me? That I would do that to my kids for no reason? Just up and decided I was out of there?
My own family sided with him.
Anyway, you’re doing amazing. No one knows what your life with him was like but you.
PTSD is real after divorce. I don’t care who initiates it or who does what. It’s still the tearing down of a life.