It WOULD be worse if you were still with that Bozo! I have friends married to pilots, and I doubt they are cheating, but you never know. They have money, and that's all that counts. Right? I should tell them to quit working and liquidate as many assets as possible before divorce becomes a subject. You have to be as conniving as they are. I'm 67 and have been single since I was 61. It's not good, nor fun. Dating sights have not been good for me. I have not given up yet, though. You sound active and thats good.