It's a shame that after so many years, my family has burnt out on showering attention on my daughter's needs and issues, their sister, their mother, etc. It's the same thing every time, and we owe it to ourselves and our families to live our lives. We cannot constantly worry about her. 28 years is a long, long time. Your article is wonderful when it comes to helping your children. We don't judge the addict, but when they repeatedly choose to take advantage of our goodness and not help themselves, it's very unfair and difficult to sacrifice for them.