It's been seven years Juanita and even though he's on his 4th DUI, I still love my ex. I wanted the divorce because I was losing my mind and thought I could move on. It's easy to dislike a husband who turns into another person after 27 years of marriage. But I never stopped loving him and sometimes, I think I let go too easily. The thing is, he has wanted to reconcile ever since we split up and I said no. He was never sober for more than two years, and how dumb would I be to jump back into the life I left?