It's good to have a strong man around. We have none in our family but one and he is unwilling to take a stand for any of us without husbands, sons, or boyfriends. Without a strong man my son-in-law is free to be an idiot. Without a strong man there's no one to give that "talk". Without a strong man's presence, males in the family misbehave more. They have no one to answer to. I'm glad that you have that. It makes a huge difference.