I've had that problem too. Except sometimes the guy is posing with a bunch of playboy bunny types that he thinks is going to impress a quality woman? Good luck with that approach. But if you've read any of my dating articles you will know that I had all the experience you mention and worse. It's so hard to find a mate in the "real" world, especially when you're older. Online is often the only alternative. Very interesting experiment you did here 😂