Just when the shit hits the fan like that last incident he must wake up and get a little scared. He’s been OK….not a wonderful spouse or father, but passable….since that day. I know it will unravel before too long. I’m careful how I press her. When things are calm at her place she’s pleased, not happy, but glad for the peace. I have a sister in Chicago we can fly to if my daughter wants to escape. A plan is ready, but it’s my plan, not hers, and that’s a problem. Can’t he say she kidnapped his children?