Many men my age have their pick of women, especially if they have money. So they can disrespect a woman and move on to the next one.

I have a friend dating a guy that has already spent thousands on her in just a month. She is ten years younger. Is she in love with him? No. He is not the man she wanted. He is lacking a few important things. But....that money....he can get any woman. He is a nice guy, and now if she lets him go, she will miss that money and those treats. Time will tell, but she's selling herself short. She does not respect him enough to discuss what she wants with him. One thing I see from the outside is that he's too good to be true. I keep my mouth shut with my opinions and tell her she will know whether to stick with him or not. He has already bought concert tickets for all summer for the 2 of them and planning a vacation in June. They met at Christmas. Moving fast.