Money differences are not good. You know that, Though. I would never have left my husband had he gotten ill, but some believe alcoholism is a sickness so I guess I blew it. Either way, very few guys my age have perfect health. But neither do I. Just nothing chronic and deadly like that one guy had. My girlfriend met a guy online and went to the restaurant to meet him. He had his portable oxygen tank with him and oxygen to his nostrils. She left. Ghosted him. He should have warned her.