My daughter has lost job after job. She seems ok when we see her but the path of her life shows she does not function well at all. My ex lost his job because he was working on wiring, and it was a risk. Then he went to jail for six months after DUI #4 and went on his social security. They may look and act reasonably standard, but the underlying problem remains a priority. I'm sorry, but I don't understand your last line.