My daughter read your note and she said great insight. She admitted she was running from her reality but she isn't sure why. She wants to say neglect from her dad and that's a deep complicated story. Its something we didn't see until a few years ago after reading up on father figures in a girls life. But, that doesn't change her situation. It does give her something to focus on. He's dead. Putting some blame on him will be easy and if that's what it takes, so be it.