My grandson sent me a cute reply today.

"Don't worry so much Grammy. I'm not going to forget you".

I think I'm worrying him. I'm going to have to make the message bigger and add "no need to respond" for him.

Your boys will have to go eventually. Encourage them to stay in town.

My brother and one sister moved out of state to live and my mom and dad didn't leave them anything. They had a trust for me and my sister who stayed close by. They were punished for moving away!