My kids have all been on edge for over a year when their dad decided to show his true colors and go off the deep end. I keep believing for a family gathering, minus him who none of us have seen for 2 years, where everyone gets their issues off their chests and we work on pulling “us” back together. Four children. 50, 44, 41, 34. Not really kids! Plus grandchildren who lost their papa. Just a cluster F…