My parents were taking their 4 kids and spouses and 8 grandchildren on a cruise. My dad came over to my house and asked if I cared if he asked my ex to go! At that point, I had been remarried to my 2nd hubby for 12 years. We had children. I told him NO WAY!

Is that rude enough? Sadly, my husband actually thought my dad liked him. I never told him or anyone about that incident. My siblings probably would have agreed with him.