Newinda...she chain-smokes, drinks a ton of pop, and likes fast food. My other daughter will cashapp her money and she will get a staff member or someone to buy her those things. It's enabling the easy way. My other daughter doesn't even have to visit or see her sister. Just send the money. That relieves the one of her guilt (for never seeing her sister for over a year) and enables the other one (the drug addict), which is the norm for the enabling, co-dependent relationship. Ah, the modern, internet world. And bravo for Door Dash, etc.