No one gives me gifts on my birthday but 2 of my girls and not always. I took my grandson to Florida over Thanksgiving with me and my daughter. He is a tightwad! I told him he could buy some of his own food at Publix and when he heard that he put everything back and ate mine all week😂 Of course his dad was going to give me some money to spend on him but never did. Just like countless other occasions when he dissed me. My grandson likes to save so I think if he gets a bunch of money he will hang on to it!