Nothing is easy once you have kids. When I remarried we moved from a 4 bedroom, 2.5 bathroom, huge house on 4 acres in the country. My first husband and I had it built. Into the city in a 3 bedroom, one bath, tiny lot, and inner-city school. My oldest did not do well. The younger 2 were 3 and 6 and adjusted better. She was 12 and in junior high and very cute. So, she had some rough girls picking on her and she fought back. I always felt so bad about it but my new husband and I could not afford the country house.