Now I am curious, Martha, why you are splitting up when you seem to get along so well. We were like that, but he was killing me with his alcoholic antics, and I was fast deteriorating as a human being. I ran to save my life, but I will always think I shouldn't have. What else would I have done? I don't know, and it doesn't matter at this point. Relationships should not be given up easily. He never communicated with me, was like a stranger, and got thrown out of the marriage counselor's office twice for coming in with alcohol on his breath. Still...I will always wonder. I still miss him after six years.