OMG...I have been there and bought some button-fly jeans from Cabi for $125. NEVER would I have done that, but they looked so HOT on me. I have gained 3 pounds, and they do not look as hot 🤣WTF?? I know your wife didn't leave you, but OMG, it feels so good to fit into a size six jeans!!! I can live on the good feeling for several more months as I try to starve myself back into wearing these jeans comfortably. ( I bought 2 pair they fit so well!)