OMG that’s not something to put in a profile but he should have revealed it right away. My friend met a guy last week who had a stutter. She wasn’t holding that against him but it was just a big surprise. He laughed and said he was sorry but he wouldn’t put that in his profile. I told her from now on have a phone conversation first! It didn’t work out for them for other reasons and it wasn’t really a lie so it ended up ok. I can’t imagine going on a dating site with a disability. Those sites can be brutal as it is. You gave John a lot more of your time than I would have!