One day, they will realize what a wonderful human being you are, how your mistakes were human, and how the decisions you made were made with the best of intentions. It's when kids deem themselves "allowed" to judge their parents that the devil moves in and rips apart the family. Their venom is contagious and often fed by other family members (other parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, all judging you). At least, that is one of Satan's ways to destroy love. As you look around you see how successful he is.