One of my daughters had a total meltdown yesterday over an argument she had with her sister 3 years ago and then accusations against me when her father died 8 years ago. Happy Thanksgiving! It was just her and I at my house. She can't and won't forgive these old and unreal incidents. It was ugly. She looked ugly. She sounded ugly. She walked out. I sat there and said nothing. Either you forgive or you don't but stay out of the lives of the people you hate.